She booked a session for her marriage. Thirty years together. Her husband was an alcoholic and she needed to know what to do with him.
I worked on her. Changed her memories. At the end of the session she said she felt like she had wasted two hours because she still did not know what to do with him. I told her I would get right to work on him and see her next week.
The following week she came back first.
Before I could say anything she said...
"Oh my God, he completely changed."
He was never in the session. He was not there. I waited fifteen minutes and he never showed.
He did not change. Her perception changed. She had been coming home every day with an attitude that repelled him. When you kick your dog every time you walk in the door, the dog is going to find somewhere else to be. She too had been doing something that shaped the dynamic. When she changed, the way she showed up changed. The way she perceived him changed. And the relationship shifted and adjusted.
You cannot change another person. But when you change what you are carrying, the dynamic between you changes. Every time.
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Apr 11, 2026
