He Wasn't My Dad. But I Saw Mom in Him. #shorts

When I got to know my husband,
when I knew we were together,
when I knew that's my guy —

I said to myself:
"There's nothing about him that reminds me of my dad.
Which is perfect."

But then later —
I started recognizing my mom's behaviors in him.

"What are you doing here?"

I had enough tools.
I was aware.
I knew what to do with it.
I understood what was happening in me.

I understood —
he's not doing anything to me.
He's not being my mom.

It's just some things I hadn't cleared up yet.
Hadn't worked through yet.

He had behaviors.
But my filters were using my past experiences.

We'd done a lot of work on Dad.

What we hadn't worked on was Mom.

So she started showing up in my husband.

It wasn't him.
It was my filters.
My perceptions.
The stuff I hadn't sorted out yet.

And I did.

Now I see things differently.

The people in front of you
aren't always who you're really seeing.

You're seeing what hasn't been cleared yet.

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