What Forgiveness Actually Means And Who It's Really For

She had been sexually abused by her brother. She moved to Australia to get away. Her past followed her there anyway.

She booked a two-hour session. Big list. We cleaned up every memory. The abuse. The alcoholism. All of it.

She walked out and told her friend she could have done that herself. Not impressed. Two hours felt wasted.

Then her brother, that brother called. He came to visit. They drove around. There was laughter. She dropped him off and sat in the driveway.

He was crying.

She asked what was wrong.

He said...

"I haven't seen you happy like this since you were that age."

She reached over and patted his leg.

Said...

"I'm okay. It's all good now."

That is when she knew it had worked.

Here is what I want you to understand about forgiveness. When I say forgiveness it is not for anyone but you. And you are not forgiving them. You are forgiving what you chose to hold at an unconscious level. A memory the brain kept to protect you but it kept you safe and enslaved at the same time.

When you update those references you become free. They could still have their problems. But you are not playing with them anymore.

That is ultimate forgiveness.

If you are ready to do this work directly, a private session with me is where it happens.

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