20 Years of Therapy. One Session. He Said "It's Not There Anymore."

His wife sent him to a session. He had never watched my work. She had.

He gave me a list of his problems. We worked through them. Changed the memories. At the end I asked him to go back to those memories and tell me if they still bothered him.

He said no. Not there. Does not bother me at all.

I asked him why he thought that was. He said "because we talked about it."

I asked: have you talked about this in therapy before? He said yes. Twenty years of therapy.

I said — we did not really talk much about it today. Do you notice anything different from all those other sessions?

He had no answer. Because the difference was not the talking. The difference was we changed how the memory was internalized. And when you change how it is internalized, it sets you free. That is how it works.

Now here is something I want to be clear about. Tapping will not solve your problems. I have had people write to me saying they have been tapping all day and nothing is happening. That is because we are not using tapping to solve the problem. We are using tapping to address the problem. The problem is the memory and how you internalized it. When that changes, the problem loses its charge.

Memory is the cause of all problems. And to the brain, they are not problems at all. They are successful outcomes for survival.

If you are ready to work on this directly, a private session with me goes straight to the memory.

Book a session here: linktr.ee/robertgenesmith

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