33 Episode - From “What’s Wrong With Me?” to “I’ve Got This” — Rewriting Emotional Hell

In this episode, Crystal and I sit down with Tammy — a woman who was literally limping through life. One leg barely working, scheduled for a total knee replacement, stuck in a storm of narcissistic abuse, church guilt, court battles over her kids, depression, and nonstop “What’s wrong with me?” looping in her head.

Her doctors had X‑rays, MRIs, and a surgery date. What they didn’t have was the real cause: years of unresolved emotional stress, old memories, and survival patterns her brain was still running on autopilot. That’s where eutaptics® FasterEFT™ comes in.

In this conversation, you’ll see precisely how stress, trauma, and toxic relationships show up as real physical pain — and how changing the records in your mind changes what your body does with them. You’ll hear how Tammy used this work to cancel her knee replacement, break free from emotional chaos, become a practitioner herself, and help her kids and clients do the same.

Here’s the bottom line: you’re not broken — you’re just running a bad program. Your brain has been faithfully replaying old files from childhood, past relationships, religion, and trauma. When you update those files, your perceptions shift, your stress response changes, and your body often follows. This is neuroplasticity in real life, not just theory.

If you’re tired of coping, talking about it, or waiting for someone else to fix you, it’s time to learn how to drive your own brain.

🔹 Want personal help?
Book a private online session with me (or one of our certified eutaptics® FasterEFT™ practitioners) and let’s work directly on the memories, patterns, and pains that are running your life.

🔹 Ready to go deeper?
Join my You Can Change Yourself – Master Training (Level 1). I’ll show you step by step how to:
– Change the memories driving your stress and pain
– Break trauma bonds and narcissistic patterns
– Stop passing your emotional junk down to your kids
– Build real emotional intelligence and self-regulation from the inside out

You’ve got one brain and one life. Learn how it really works, update the programs, and your world has to change.

👉 Next step:

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This video is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or psychological care. Always consult your licensed health professionals for diagnosis and treatment.

00:00 - When Your Body Starts Screaming
00:41 - Meet Robert Gene: “Einstein of the Mind”
01:18 - From Marriage Stress to Massage School: Robert’s Search for Real Change
04:37 - What Stress Really Is (And Why Two People React So Differently)
08:35 - Trauma, PTSD & Why Your Brain Isn’t Broken
14:54 - Fear as an Affirmation: How We Rehearse Our Worst-Case Scenarios
21:56 - Meet Tammy: Depression, Divorce, and “What’s Wrong With Me?”
33:46 - Black Belt Dreams, Knee Pain & Canceling a Total Knee Replacement
41:01 - Parenting, Kids & Stopping the Generational Crazy
49:53 - From Client to Practitioner: Fibromyalgia, POTS & Big Wins
01:04:09 - Narcissism, Trauma Bonds & Why You’re Addicted to the Pain
01:15:03 - Changing Memories, Ultimate Forgiveness & Level 1 Training
01:27:29 - No More Suffering: Your Brain, Your Life, Your Choice

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Pain isn’t random: the mind and body are always talking to each other. Emotional stress, unresolved memories, and fear often show up as physical symptoms.

Stress is not what happens to you; it’s your body’s reaction to how you perceive what happens. Perception is learned and can be changed.

Trauma is “an education” your brain uses to keep you safe — not a life sentence and not a broken brain. PTSD is a survival program, not a disorder.

Memories and perceptions built in childhood (including religious conditioning and authoritarian parenting) silently drive adult relationships, self-worth, and health.

Tammy’s story: depression, narcissistic abuse, court fights over her kids, miscarriage from extreme stress, and feeling “what’s wrong with me?”

How she found Robert’s YouTube videos, started tapping on her darkest thoughts, and felt a huge emotional shift in just a couple of hours on her own.

Years later, she came back with severe knee pain, scheduled for total knee replacement — and used eutaptics® FasterEFT™ sessions to reduce the pain and cancel surgery.

When you change the emotional “files” linked to pain and illness, the body often responds: less pain, better mobility, more options. (Placebo research backs this mind-body effect.)

Parenting with this work: helping kids clear the meaning they put on events, so today’s problems don’t become tomorrow’s trauma.

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