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The issue is seeking help from someone unskilled in memory alteration. We've developed an unchangeable value system. But, by changing the events fueling perfectionism, we release pressure and judgment, enabling greatness without self-harm. #MemoryChange #Perfectionism #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #EmotionalHealing #ValueSystem #MentalWellness #InnerPeace #Mindfulness #transformation
The video brings up the idea of labeling mental health issues like bipolar disorder and manic depression. The speaker suggests these labels might overshadow the root cause, which could be unresolved memories. He advocates for addressing those memories directly, instead of simply accepting a mental illness diagnosis.
After 43 years of insomnia, we met a man seeking help for complex PTSD. A single memory adjustment transformed his sleep. Perfectionism, once a weapon, now causes sleep and stomach issues. We discuss how neuroplasticity can rewrite painful memories. #PTSD #Insomnia #SleepProblems #Neuroplasticity #MemoryRewiring #BehavioralEngineering #MentalHealth #TraumaHealing #SleepDisorders #MemoryAdjustment
A man couldn't sleep more than two hours at a time for 43 years until meeting a behavioral engineer. The video explores how addressing a major **traumatic memories** with **neuroscience** and a neuroplastician changed his life. This may also help with complex **cptsd**.
A positive trauma shifts your perspective and actions. Negative traumas prioritize survival. We help those with perfectionism driven by past hurts and fear of rejection. Emotional traumas can stem from words or witnessing others' pain, leading to a need for perfection. #PositiveTrauma #EmotionalHealing #Perfectionism #OvercomingFear #SelfImprovement #MentalWellness #TraumaRecovery #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalIntelligence #resilience
The speaker highlights how **positive experiences** can reshape your perspective, while negative ones serve as survival mechanisms. He notes that **perfectionism** is often fueled by emotional pain and **childhood trauma**. Discover how to start **healing** and embrace **emotional healing**.
We explore why striving for perfectionism is a low standard. Letting go and doing our best is key.
Emotionally conditioned, we were trained to be perfect, but perfection doesn't exist. Aim for excellence instead! #Perfectionism #ProductivityTips #Motivation #SelfImprovement #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #SuccessMindset #Mindfulness #OvercomingPerfectionism #Achievement
This episode explores the difference between simply exceeding expectations and the pursuit of perfection, touching on whether striving for excellence is truly beneficial. Are you stuck in a cycle of chasing validation instead of focusing on personal growth? Join us as we question the value of perfectionism and suggest that striving for excellence might be a healthier, more fulfilling path.
Perfectionism isn’t the high standard you think it is—it’s a bar that keeps moving, and no one ever reaches it.
Rewriting social media posts a dozen times, tweaking every word—only to freeze before hitting publish. Rereading text messages multiple times, trying to make them sound “just right.” Delaying launching your program, podcast, or book—not from laziness, but because it’s “not perfect yet.”
Perfectionism is a survival program wired into the brain, driven by fears of rejection, judgment, or losing connection and love.
In this episode of The Robert Gene Experience, co-host Crystal Derksen and host Robert Gene—behavioral engineer, drug rehab consultant, and creator of eutaptics® FasterEFT™—explore how perfectionism is a moving target that constantly changes the rules so it’s never enough.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
What perfectionism really is—and why it’s not just about “high standards”
How fear of mistakes, judgment, rejection, and loss drives perfectionism deep in the subconscious
Why perfectionism is a moving target—an impossible bar that keeps shifting so you never feel “enough”
What perfectionism looks like in your daily habits, thoughts, and self-talk—often without you even realizing it
The difference between being a high achiever and being trapped in perfectionism’s grip
How perfectionism is linked to early memories and subconscious programming
Why traditional approaches often fail to shift perfectionism—and why eutaptics® FasterEFT™ is uniquely effective at reprogramming these deep patterns.
What freedom from perfectionism feels like, and how your life can change once you release the need to be perfect
If you’re ready to stop chasing an impossible ideal and reclaim your creativity, confidence, and peace of mind, this episode is a must-listen.
Share this episode with anyone who struggles with perfectionism—it could be the breakthrough they need.
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If you’re struggling with symptoms like chronic fatigue, skin issues, low libido, headaches, autoimmune flare-ups, or unexplained pain, this message is for you. If intimacy feels overwhelming, you shut down during s.ex, or find yourself stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, what you might be experiencing are the effects of past s.exual imprints stored in your brain.
Our brains record experiences, especially those involving shame, pain, or discomfort, even when we’re not consciously aware of them. Instances like unwanted touch, exposure to p.orn at a young age, being shamed for your body, or punishment for curiosity can create these imprints. While these moments may not be held as conscious memories, they often manifest through physical symptoms, emotional reactions, and patterns of behavior that can feel hard to explain.
Many people feel stuck in cycles of confusion, experiencing chronic pain, emotional disconnection, or unexplainable compulsions. This is because their brain is still reacting as though past events are current threats, even when those events can’t be consciously recalled.
On this episode of The Robert Gene Experience, cohost Crystal Derksen and behavioral engineer Robert Gene uncover how our earliest s.exual experiences—even the ones we might not think "count"—can profoundly shape our health, relationships, and sense of self. They discuss how emotions such as disgust, shame, and guilt can manifest physically as pain, withdrawal, or even self-rejection.
Robert Gene, the creator of eutaptics® FasterEFT™, a powerful modality for releasing the brain’s imprints of stress and trauma, provides insights into how you can begin to heal. If this resonates with you and you’re ready to create real, lasting change, explore Robert’s Level 1 You Can Change Yourself Master Training, where rewiring your mind begins.
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In this video, discover the power of **forgiveness** and how it can brighten your **mental health**. By practicing **how to let go of anger** and **resentment**, you can start **healing** and enjoying everyday life. Subscribe to this channel @SkillsToChange for more content on personal growth and emotional wellness.
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In this video, learn the importance of practicing self love and self awareness for personal development. Discover the art of forgiveness and how to forgive yourself, which is a key step to self growth. Letting go of anger can greatly improve your mental health and overall well-being.
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If you’ve been living with chronic pain—pain doctors can’t explain, pain that doesn’t respond to treatments, pain that keeps you up at night—we have the answer for you today.
Maybe you’ve been told it’s all in your head. You’ve tried everything: medications, therapies, specialists. But the pain is still there, and no one’s been able to tell you why.
In this episode of The Robert Gene Experience, Robert Gene and Crystal Derksen break down the powerful connection between childhood trauma and chronic physical pain—and explain how the brain captures information from past experiences, and the body expresses it.
Robert addresses why the phrase “the body remembers” is misleading and unpacks the truth behind the popular book title “Feelings Buried Alive Never Die.” If you’ve ever believed those ideas, you’ll want to hear what he has to say—because the real answer is in how the brain holds information.
We cover key topics such as:
The impact of childhood PTSD on chronic pain conditions like fibromyalgia and lupus
The truth about phantom pain and sympathy pain
The misnomer of the phrase “Feelings Buried Alive Never Die”—and why it’s actually memories that continue to affect us
The placebo and nocebo effect—and what they teach us about how pain is created
How chronic pain is the brain’s way of protecting you based on past learned experiences
If you're ready to finally understand what your pain is really about—and why nothing else has worked—this conversation will shift everything.
Join cohost Crystal Derksen and host Sir Robert Gene—a neuroplastician, behavioral engineer and creator of eutaptics® FasterEFT™, a cutting-edge system that has helped millions of people break the cycle of pain and trauma for good.
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If you’ve ever felt the need to morph into the person your parents wanted—constantly adapting your behavior to match their moods and expectations—you’re not alone. Many adults grapple with a complicated relationship with their parents, feeling torn between love and hate. This struggle often results in a disconnection from your true interests and identity, leaving you feeling trapped in roles that prioritize others’ happiness over your own.
In this episode of The Robert Gene Experience, we delve into the complexities of Childhood PTSD and its impact on your sense of identity. If you’ve faced emotional neglect or manipulation, you may find yourself battling low self-worth and confusion about who you are and what you genuinely desire. Childhood PTSD can cloud your perception of yourself and the world around you, making it challenging to establish a solid sense of self.
Additionally, we discuss the malleable nature of the brain and how recognizing this flexibility opens doors for transformation and healing. The understanding that our emotional training and identities are not fixed empowers us to reinvent ourselves.
Joining your host Robert Gene is co-host Crystal Derksen for a meaningful exploration of the topic. Robert Gene is one of America’s leading experts on stress, trauma, and PTSD, as well as a respected behavioral engineer, neuroplastician, and drug rehab consultant.
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If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the need to be nice, constantly saying yes to others while neglecting your own needs, this episode is for you. You'll discover how this habit of "being nice" often stems from childhood trauma, leading to anxiety, depression, and even physical sickness.
Host Robert Gene, a leading expert in stress and trauma, along with co-host Crystal Derksen, will unpack how trauma really works from inside the brain and how many different coping skills we develop like people-pleasing and how it affects your well-being.
You’ll learn that being nice isn't just a simple personality trait; it's a coping mechanism formed from early experiences that teach you to prioritize others before yourself. This episode will help you understand how these ingrained patterns can leave you feeling exhausted, guilty, and unworthy, all while keeping you stuck in a cycle of self-sacrifice.
Robert challenges traditional views on trauma, emphasizing that it's not a disorder but rather an emotional education that impacts how you navigate relationships and your own well-being. You'll gain a fresh perspective on how childhood experiences shape your adult behaviors and you've been conditioned to serve others at the cost of your own happiness.
This conversation will empower you to rethink what trauma means, allowing you to reclaim agency in your life and prioritize your own needs without guilt. Tune in to discover how to genuinely heal and lead a more fulfilling life.
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Major reasons why your brain is keeping you sick and
1. Pain is designed to protect you, but it also keeps you trapped.
2. Pain keeps you connected to your past
3. Pain keeps you connected to people in your past
4. Pain protects you from more harm
5. Pain attracts more pain
6. Worry is practicing in your mind what you do not want but keeps you stuck in it.
7. People plan their day around pain and build a life on pain.
8. Your Brain is the scorekeeper, but your body is the screamer
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5-Week Workshop - Heal Your Body | Sundays, March 2-30, 2025
Major reasons why your brain is keeping you sick and
1. Pain is designed to protect you, but it also keeps you trapped.
2. Pain keeps you connected to your past
3. Pain keeps you connected to people in your past
4. Pain protects you from more harm
5. Pain attracts more pain
6. Worry is practicing in your mind what you do not want but keeps you stuck in it.
7. People plan their day around pain and build a life on pain.
8. Your Brain is the scorekeeper, but your body is the screamer
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