They Butter You Up. Then Break You Down. #shorts
They butter you up on both sides.
Tell you you're the most amazing person ever.
Give you everything you need.
Then slowly — they start breaking you down.
Isolate you. Doubt your decisions. Wear you down.
Big blowup. They ghost you.
And you're jonesing for them —
because in your mind you still have the love,
the connection, the good times.
You want it back.
And you're willing to overlook the abuse.
They come back: "I'm so sorry. I found Jesus. I'll go to therapy."
Flowers. Tears. Butter.
Lasts a little while.
Then they go back to their emotional training.
And it happens again.
You start to doubt who you are.
"Maybe I'm the problem."
And it's affecting you physically.
You're getting sick.
That's not weakness. That's what the cycle does.
What's living inside you from that — that's what the work is for.
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Tell you you're the most amazing person ever.
Give you everything you need.
Then slowly — they start breaking you down.
Isolate you. Doubt your decisions. Wear you down.
Big blowup. They ghost you.
And you're jonesing for them —
because in your mind you still have the love,
the connection, the good times.
You want it back.
And you're willing to overlook the abuse.
They come back: "I'm so sorry. I found Jesus. I'll go to therapy."
Flowers. Tears. Butter.
Lasts a little while.
Then they go back to their emotional training.
And it happens again.
You start to doubt who you are.
"Maybe I'm the problem."
And it's affecting you physically.
You're getting sick.
That's not weakness. That's what the cycle does.
What's living inside you from that — that's what the work is for.
👉 Free Course: skillstochange.com/...fastereft-course
#eutaptics #FasterEFT #RobertGeneSmith #SkillsToChange #TraumaHealing #HealingJourney #InnerWork #EmotionalFreedom
Jun 6, 2026
