You Don’t Leave the Pattern by Leaving the Person

Many people believe they need to leave a relationship to change their experience.

Often, that doesn’t work. The brain chooses what’s familiar. That choice is based on learned training, not logic.

That’s why people move from one relationship to another and feel like nothing improves.

This video explains why attraction repeats, why your “picker” isn’t broken,
and what actually has to change for different outcomes to appear.