Why Love Feels Conditional

Many people spend their lives trying harder in relationships and still feel unseen.

That effort isn’t random.
It’s learned.

When love is conditional, the brain records a simple rule.

Do more, be better, try harder.
That rule becomes a program.

And it repeats across school, work, and relationships.

This video explains how emotional programs form, why effort replaces connection, and how these patterns keep choosing familiar dynamics.

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