How 'Needs Change' in Relationships Becomes a Problem

Many relationships begin because they meet an unconscious need.

Safety.
Predictability.
Distance from chaos.

Over time, internal patterns change.
Needs evolve.

When one person changes and the other does not, conflict appears. Not because anyone is wrong, but because the original pattern no longer fits.

This video explains how learned responses shape relationship choices and why “safe” can stop being enough.

What did this relationship originally protect you from?
Feb 5, 2026
 
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