Robert Gene Smith has posted a YouTube video:
You're not picking wrong. You're picking what fits your mind. 👉 Free Course: https://skillstochange.mn.co/.../1872620 Why does the negative scream louder? Because it has pain. And the avoidance of pain. When you have a bad event — it hurts you. It scares you. And then you start thinking about it. And you ask not so smart questions. "What's wrong with me?" "What did I do wrong?" "It's my fault." "If only I would be perfect." "Maybe if I do everything he wants — maybe he won't be mean to me." That keeps you in the trauma bonding experience. "Why do I keep picking the abusive partners?" "My picker's wrong. I keep picking the wrong one. And they're getting worse." You're not getting worse. You're getting better at picking what fits in your mind. In order to improve your relationships — you gotta improve the ones you started and learned from. And change how you hold and represent that.
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